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Have you ever been in love ? Horrible, isn't it ? It makes you so vulnrable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like to smile at you, or even to touch you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like "maybe we should just be friends" or "how very perceptive" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul hurt, a body hurt, it is a pain that gets inside you and rips you apart. I think this is the reason why some hate love, and to regret that they ever loved. And nothing hurts as being disappointed .... in love
.

We all want to fall in love. Why? Because that experience makes us feel completely alive.
Where every sense is valued, every emotion is magnified, our reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens.

It may only last a moment, an hour, an afternoon. But that doesn't diminish its value. Because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.
And as I've said before, Either it is Valentine's Day or no, You know quite well, deep within you, that there is only a single magic, a single
power, a single salvation, and that is called loving. Well, then, love your
suffering, and suffer from your loving. Do not resist it, do not escape from it. It is your aversion that hurts, nothing else.

You learn to speak by speaking, to study by studying, to run by running, to work by working;
and just so, you learn to love by loving. All those who think to learn in any other way deceive
themselves ...

The best thing is not to hate anyone : only to love. That is the only way out of it.
As soon as you have forgiven those whom you hate, you Then you have no reason to hate them; you just forget.
The Love, which I'm searching for, isn't for a particular person, or for a particular
time, it is to be in an infintity loving situation, with every one, with everything,
and let's simply remember to live the life we love, and love the life we live,
and I believe this is the thing that is keeping me cheerfully alive, till now